🔴 Is love relative to time or your mind?

 

      

 So can I ask you something?

 When you lose a love, do you feel the pain compared to the time you loved him, or do you think it is compared to your heart?

 Now you will give different answers. Some of you have heard say,

  

   "I loved him for 8 years"

   "I loved him for 4 years"

   "It's been 3 months since we started making love. But to me, he is like a familiar person who comes from the world, I feel his love so much."

 That's what he's saying. Even you may have cried saying that with your friend the day he left.

Meanwhile, some say,

             "We loved for 10 years. He left me. But it doesn't hurt me that much. I understood everything and endured it."

 You may have heard it said this way too.

 Among the people who spoke to me personally, I have met both of them.

 No matter what anyone says, whether you loved for 10 years, 10 months, 10 weeks, 10 days, or 10 hours, that period does not affect your pain.

 If you feel sad now due to the loss of love, it is not compared to the time when you loved him, but the hopes you created in that love, the dreams you created, those memories, here are the things you hold in your mind.  That's why while another person understands everything and gets rid of the sadness and moves forward in life, another person is stuck in the same place.

 Therefore, if you have lost your love, instead of wasting your life thinking about it, understand the reality and do your future work, prepare your mind. Remove the cause of sadness from your mind.

 Because as you know, psychologically, several main reasons determine a person's behavior. Your behavior is determined by your feelings and emotions, your senses, and your desires.

 Now think about it, if you make up your mind, whether you want to suffer in the long term or not, and how foolish it is if you suffer in the long term, one day you will understand all this yourself.

 So think about what kind of behavior you will live in when faced with such an event.

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